The Language of Success

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As a sociology major in both undergraduate and graduate school, I have always been fascinated with human-to-human interaction.  I had a communications professor who told me that once she wandered around the Cornell University campus and when people asked her how she was, she would reply, “I’m dead” – just to see who would respond.  Most people said, “That’s nice.  Well, see you around.”  Along those same lines, I’ve always been intrigued by how we begin conversations with people we’ve never met before.  Isn’t it interesting that when we meet someone new, we almost always begin the conversation by asking “What do you do?”  We want to know what a person does because we somehow think that knowing the occupation a person holds will tell us about who that person is. 

But pause to think about it – how many of us have held jobs that just touch the surface of describing who we truly are?  When I worked in Pennsylvania in student affairs at Penn College, saying that I was ‘a residence life coordinator’ would tell you very little about what I valued, how I spent my time, or who God was to me.  And for many people, a job is just a way to pay the bills, so to attempt to define those people by knowing what they do from 9-to-5 would be almost completely missing the mark.

Where do we find our worth and identity?  Certainly many them in the friends they have, in the jobs they hold, in the grades they score, or in the social circles where they might be found.  Let me be direct here in stating that the language of success is rather limited in the Bible.  It’s not that it doesn’t exist, but much more prevalent are the languages of faithfulness and relationship.  People who are described in the Bible as having achieved much are often described in terms of how well they loved God or how true they were to His calling on their lives.  You’ll also read a lot of language related to ‘son-ship’ – the idea that we are defined by our relationship to our Heavenly Father.  We are called children, chosen, beloved, and the list goes on.  For a great list of who we are in Christ, just hop on Google and type in “who I am in Christ”, and you’ll find a list of the verses that tell us about our relationship to God.

The reason we must grasp the centrality of identity is that self-esteem defined by anything other than Christ will eventually fail us.  We will live from experience-to-experience, standing on the edge of the cliff of failure, wondering if one day we might fall off and be seen as not good enough.  If you are a Christian, you are called to work hard and live well for Christ’s glory, but not to do so in order to be loved by Him – He already loves us without end.

What might it look like if you were so grounded in your identity in Christ that all the other things in life for which so many strive became worthwhile but not worth-giving?  A life that has found self-esteem and identity in Christ is one filled with “peace that passes all understanding” (Phil. 4). 

Always On Time

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In the Gospel of Luke, Chapter 3, we read the story of John the Baptist arriving on the scene to proclaim the Good News of the coming Messiah.  John is the fore runner, the one to come before Christ and to prepare the people for the King who is soon to arrive.

In response to John’s call to repentance, we see the crowd, the tax collectors, and the soldiers all inquire, “What should we do?”  Interestingly, in response to the tax collectors, John says, “Don’t collect any more than you are required to.”  During this time period, the tax collectors egregiously overcharged those being taxed and they for took a huge portion of what they collected and kept it for themselves.  John’s call to them was this – be people of integrity.  Take what is due to the government, keep the appropriate portion that is your legitimate salary, and do not take any more.  In essence, John was saying, “Be a person of integrity.”

I find this passage very intriguing.  We see that this chapter starts with a proclamation of the coming King Jesus.  The new Kingdom is being ushered in and John is giving insight to those who are around him as to how to live in the new Kingdom, insight into what the values of the new Kingdom are.  One of these is clearly integrity – being a man or woman who keeps his or her word and does what is correct.  Oftentimes, I think it’s easy to think of  “The Kingdom of God” and living in light of this Kingdom as focused on the spiritual disciplines and evangelism – reading our Bibles, praying, going to church, sharing our faith.  While all of these are aspects of the Kingdom, there are more subtle aspect that we might overlook.  One of these Kingdom values is integrity.

Integrity is doing what you say you will do.  Integrity is being true to who you are called to be.  In my experience, we as Christians tend to be late.  Meetings start late, people arrive to meetings late, people arrive late to pick someone up, and the list goes on.  While we are called to live as gracious people, we are also called to live as people of integrity.  What would it look like if Christians were the ones who were always on time?  What would it look like if Christians were known to always keep their word, even when it was hard to do?  I realize that “life happens” and that at times, we just can’t be where we planned to be due to an unexpected change in plans or a sickness in the family.  But in the day to day existence, what if Christians were to live as people of outstanding integrity, even in this one area of being on time?   What would that mean?

It would mean that a piece of the Kingdom of God was in our midst.

Food for thought - Caedmon's Call Sings "This World"

There's tarnish on the golden rule 

And I wanna jump from this ship of fools 

Show me a place where hope is young 

And a people who aren't afraid to love 

This world has nothing for me and this world has everything 

All that I could want and nothing that I need 

This world is making me drunk on the spirits of fear. 

So when he says who will go, I am nowhere near. 

And the least of these look like criminals to me 

So I leave Christ on the street 

This world has held my hand and has led me into intolerance 

But now I'm waking up, but now I'm breaking up 

But now I'm making up for lost time

Discerning Direction - Faith

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Over the last few days, we've looked at the concept of finding God's will for our lives.  Needless to say, a topic of this enormity cannot be covered in just a few posts during a week or do.  A few good resources for this topic are Dallas Willard's Hearing God and Henry Blackaby's Experiencing God.  Both have their strengths, but taken together they will offer a primmer of this vast subject.

As we close, I'd like to offer one thought.  While this was addressed earlier on, I believe it is the most appropriate topic on which to close this series of posts.  Faith - do you really trust in God?  When I was a campus minister I recall speaking to a student who was expressing frustration over his fellow students and their laissez-faire attitude toward ministry on-campus.  "If God wants to do something, He'll do it" was their chorus.  I told this student, "There is certainly truth in that statement, but as we look over the history of the Christian church, it is interesting to note that those who have had the greatest impact worked the hardest."  We cannot sit on the sidelines and then wonder why God is not speaking.  The author of Hebrews reminds us that God rewards those who seek Him with all that they have (Hebrews 11).  So yes, we must work at discerning God's will.

But in the end, if we have put forth an effort of which we can be proud, the issue of God's will for our lives comes back to faith in God - that He is who He says He is.  We are reminded in Matthew 7 how reasonable it is to assume that an earthly father would provide for his child.  If that is true, Jesus asks us how much more filled with unconditional love is God our Father?  And if this is true, we can have the faith that He will lead us if we seek after Him.  It may take time and it may all come to pass in a different way than we hoped or expected, but He is good and He will lead us.

At the core of this whole question is our relationship with God.  If we aim to please Him, to love Him, and to be loved by Him, then we can believe the Lord's Prayer that indeed His Kingdom will come and His will will be done on earth.

-tC

Discerning Direction - Prayer

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(Again, please see Henry Blackaby's book Experiencing God for the original collection of the 4 ways God often communicates His will to us). 

Prayer serves at least two main functions when we are working on discerning God's will in our lives.  These functions are to focus us on God and to hear God's Spirit speaking to us.
We will consider both of these in this post.

Prayer can be described as a conversation with God.  Interesting to describe it that way, perhaps, because many feel like prayer is more about humans speaking than it is about God answering.  However, before we even address the topic of how God speaks in prayer, we should note a few things.

Prayer implies need and awareness of God's ability to meet that need.  Praying to God is an acknowledgment that we cannot do it all on our own.  When we ask anyone for help, we are stating that we need assistance.  So it is with prayer.  Asking God for direction in life is stating (as a sub-text) "Because God, I can't find out Your will on my own and I don't really want to live just by my will."  So prayer shows we realize our need.  Additionally, prayer focuses us on God.  When we become so consumed with where God wants to lead us or what God wants us to do, we can lose the focus that at least in part the joy is found in the following of Christ.  Prayer reminds us of our need for God and it centers us on knowing and enjoying Him.  The Aaronic prayer found in Numbers 6 reads, "The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make His face shine on you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn His face toward you and give you peace" (Number 6:24-26).  This blessing is not about God's will, but instead about the blessing of being with and experiencing God.  Thus, prayer is a healthy exercise in all seasons, but especially when we are seeking out God's will in our lives - it keeps us looking to Him and not to our challenges or questions.

Secondly, God can speak to us in prayer.  As noted in the earlier posts, we must always test all things against the Scriptures, so when we pray and we feel that God may be speaking to us, we should immediately compare what we are "hearing" with His Word.  But how does God speak to us in prayer?  In the vast majority of cases it is not in an audible voice.  Instead He often communicates to us in prayer by bringing ideas, Scriptures, or other things to mind.  Elijah spoke about this as the "still small voice" (1 Kings 19).  When you are praying, be sensitive to those quiet whisperings in your soul - that may be God's Spirit speaking to you.  Perhaps it's a word or phrase, perhaps it is a Scripture that God wants to use to communicate to you.  Either way, God can communicate with us in prayer.

When we listen for the promptings of God the Holy Spirit in prayer, tested against the Scriptures, and then combined with direction and insight from people, and added to situations into which God has led us, we have a powerful formula for seeking and finding God's will.

Tomorrow we will close out this series of posts about discerning God's will.

-tC    

Discerning Direction - People

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(Again, please see Henry Blackaby's book Experiencing God for the original collection of the 4 ways God often communicates His will to us). 

As we look at the many ways God can use to reveal His will to us, people must be added to that list.  While God's Word is the most certain, people can also be directed by God (often unbeknown to them) to speak His truth and direction into our lives.  This can be true of both Christian and non-Christians.  Let's look at this a bit more.

As mentioned in an earlier post, there are no coincidences in life, and thus we must be aware of how God might be speaking to us through the people in our lives.  An example of this comes from a friend of mine who was questioning his call to ministry.  As he wrestled with his own frailties and apprehension about the things to which God might be calling him, God used a variety of people to speak into his life and encourage him to stay the course.  First it was a pastor he knew, then a friend, and then a mentor - all in one day.  All of them affirmed his gifts and the pastor told him that he believed there was a calling God had on his life.  While these might just be passing comments, to have them come when they did amd from whom they came - it might just be a sign that our caring and personal God has communicated with us.

These kinds of situations don't just occur for those called into full-time vocational ministry - they can be the experience of anyone.  Of course, we must listen to what people are saying to us and then process it through the grid of God's Word.  No matter how many people might tell one to steal, God's Word is the ultimate trump card and thus, we must affirm that the words from people fall in line with God's Word.

Scripturally, there are many passages that speak to the way God uses His people (followers of Christ) to speak His word to others.  When Jesus sends out His disciples (Luke 10), He is sending them to speak God's words, to be God's messengers for Him.  Later on in the New Testament, we read in 2 Corinthians 5:20 that we are sent "as God's ambassadors, as if God were making His appeal through us."  And Peter tells us that when we speak, we should do so as if we were speaking the very words of God (1 Peter 4:11).  Certainly, that doesn't mean that every word spoken from a Christian to a fellow Christian is God's will, but if we are interacting with people who love and are committed to Christ, we can be sure that God may just be using them to communicate His will to us.

When it comes to God speaking through someone who is not a follower of Christ, it can certainly also happen.  In Romans 1 we read that God speaks through Creation, and if so, we can be sure that He can speak through someone who is not just His creation, but someone who is made in His image (Genesis 1:26).  The key when listening for God's direction through others is to remember that all people are fallen and that we must always approach what is said to us by first considering it in light of God's Word and secondly, with a prayerful heart (the topic of tomorrow's post).

In summary, God can use other people in your life to speak His will to you.  In concert with His Word and circumstances, we might begin to see a clearer picture of what it is God is sharing with us and where He is leading us.

-tC

Discerning Direction - Situations and Circumstances

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(Again, please see Henry Blackaby's book Experiencing God for the original collection of the 4 ways God often communicates His will to us). 

If we can confirm that the direction we believe God may be leading us is in line with God's Word, we can next look to situations and circumstances to continue to discern how God is directing our steps.  It's been said that there are no coincidences, and philosophically and logically, I believe that to be true.  The question of causation always has to come back to a First Cause.  Consider the concept of all that occurred to create the universe in which we now live, often known as the Big Bang Theory.  We can look forward from the Big Bang and posit that there are always actions that cause reactions - the leaf falls because the wind blew, the wind blew because of a storm, the storm came to be because of the way the weather systems formed, and so forth and so on.  But going all the way back, we need a First Cause, the uncaused cause of all other things.  In the Christian faith, this is God. 

Now if we can see God as the ultimate cause/first cause, and we can agree that the Scripture describes Him as a personal God, it makes sense that situations in our lives are likely caused or influenced by God.  An example might help here.  Let's say that money is tight and I am wondering if I should pay a bill that has arrived in the mail.  If I look into the Word of God, we see that God affirms the idea of not being in debt (Romans 13) and being true to one's word (Matthew 5:37).  So we can begin by knowing that yes, God wants us to pay our bills.  Next, we go to church on Sunday and hear a sermon about following through on commitments.  Coincidence - possibly, but we note it down that another situation has seemed to affirm the idea of paying this bill.  Next, we get a note from a friend and in it we find a $100 bill.  The note says, "I know things have been tight - hope this will help".  Could it be that God wants me to go out and get a new pair of shoes with thing money?  Not likely.  And then let's say that we get a call from the company to whom we owe the money and they say, "We had an accounting mistake and you don't owe us $150, you only owe us $100."

Given - this is a pretty clear scenario from God about what we should do, but please don't miss the point.  God uses situations and circumstances to direct us into His will.  He directs people to us that will speak a message into our lives.  He places opportunities in front of us that are oftentimes hard to miss.    But we must go back to our earlier portion of this discussion and test our own hearts - when the Word confirms and situations seem to be pointing toward God's will, do we have the will/faith to move forward into whatever God has for us?

A cautionary note: do not practice 'voodoo theology' (a phrase from Chuck Swindoll) and think that everything is a sign from God.  For example - I'm wondering if I should take a flight to Hawaii for a vacation that I cannot afford, but I wake up at 7:47 a.m. and take it as a sign that I should get on a 747 plane and go.  This is a dangerous way to live our lives.  What if we randomly opened the Bible to see God's will for our lives and our eyes fell on the passage that said, "Judas hung himself"?  We close our Bibles, certain that this isn't God's will, so we flip it open again and read, "And they all rejoiced..."  Clearly, we don't want to turn God's will into hocus-pocus.  My recommendation is to wait on circumstances and see if God uses multiple situations to confirm how He might be speaking to you.  No, we cannot wait forever, but we also should not rush ahead because of one blip in the radar.  God will often use other people to confirm His will in your life (our topic for the next post).

God uses situations and circumstances to share His will with us.  If we are grounded in His Word to confirm God's broader will, He will sometimes use these non-random occurrences to show us what our next step might be.  Psalm 139 tells us that He knew us before we were born, that He formed us in our mother's womb.  If that's true, it makes sense that He certainly would take the time to put us in places where He speaks His will to us through situations and circumstances.

- tC

Discerning Direction - God's Word and Will

 

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(Please see Henry Blackaby's book Experiencing God for the original collection of the 4 ways God often communicates His will to us). 

In discerning God's will for an area of one's life, there are many subjective arenas to consider. Did I correctly hear God in that still small voice?  Was the occurrence today God trying to speak to me?  The list of gray areas may be many, but there is a foundation, a grid through which we should view the uncertain or unclear ways in which God is trying to communicate to us.  That grid is the Word of God, The Bible.

In a situation where we are unclear, it is always best to start with what we know.  If I were to receive a phone call from my wife that our daughter is sick, I would begin the process of discussion by framing what we know and what we don't know.  "Is she sleeping a lot?  Is she breathing?  Is she coughing?"  As I gained information and eliminated the more serious maladies, I would start to hone in on what our next step might be - I might conclude that a visit to the emergency room is not necessary and that we can wait until tomorrow to see the pediatrician.  We start with what we know, we gain what insights on what we can be sure of and thus we begin to build a framework from which we can move forward.

So it is with the Bible.  Though there can be uncertainty in discerning God's will, what we can stand on is the certainty of God's Word.  (The objective strength of the Bible can verified by many researchers, theologians, and historians, so we will leave that area of discussion for other and another day.  If you are interested, you can view the video at the bottom of this post).  The revealed will of God is multi-faceted but all of the Bible describes this will.  Does God want me to be sexually pure?   Thessalonians 4:3 reads, "It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality."  Does God want me to help people come to follow Jesus and His ways?  Matthew 28:18-20 reads, "Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." 

If we are unsure of God's will for our life, we can find His revealed will explained to us in The Bible.  It's also interesting to note two things here.  First, I'd note that much of God's will for His people is less concerned with the "what" they do and much more focused around the "who" that they are (and are becoming, which is to look like Christ [Galatians 4:19]).  Secondly, it's interesting to see how much of God's will for us is actually explained in His Word.  More times than not, God has spoken (whether directly or indirectly) about the issue on which we are seeking direction.

God's will is best understood in God's Word. 

- tC

Discerning Direction - God's Character

I believe that at the core of the "will of God" question is character - the character of God.  While there are many aspects to discerning His will, at the core of the issue is the question who is God?  What is He like?  What is His nature and more specifically, what is His nature toward me, His child? 

When we are in a season of wrestling through the next steps of life, we can begin to look at God as a judge, as a dictator, or as a begrudging Father who is waiting for us to make a mistake and miss the mark.  But this is not the character of God as described in holy writ.  Over and over again we read in the Old Testament that "the LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love" (Psalm 103:8)  Think to the very opening pages of the Bible.  Even after The Fall, God shows compassion.  In a fallen state if Adam and Eve had partaken of the tree that offered eternal life, it follows that they could have existed in a fallen state eternally.  Thus, their expulsion from the Garden was an act of love.  Even after they are found guilty of breaking God's only command, He gives them clothing to cover their nakedness (probably at the cost of the life of an animal).  From the beginning to the end of the Bible, God is kind and gracious.

If we are unsure of the "what" when it comes to the future, perhaps we need to focus on the "who" instead.  If we can trust in Him, we can be sure that when the time is right, He will lead us in His ways. 

Years ago, I was in a Ph.D. program in sociology.  At the same time, I began to feel a calling into full-time vocational ministry.  I struggled for many hours with what God's will was for me.  Was I to continue as an academic and impact the university-setting for Christ?  Was I to leave a Ph.D. program where I was experiencing great success to become a full-time campus minister?  It was truly a season (short as it was) of agony.  But relief came when I finally arrived at a place where this is what I said to God:

God, I don't know where You want me to go.  You know that as best as I can tell in my own heart, I am seeking You with all that I have.  I am going to walk forward doing the best that I can and if You need to redirect me, please do.  I will go where You call me, just make it clear.

And that was it.  There is great freedom in knowing that God is not out cause His children to fail.  In John 15 we read that when we bear fruit, it is to the glory of God (John 15:8).  If that is true, He will put us in the place where we can most bless Him, bless others, and glorify His name.  If we can trust in His character, we can walk forward in faith that we are not walking alone.

- tC

Discerning Direction - The Wills of God

When we consider the will of God, there are often two main concepts theologians like to address: the permissive and the efficacious will of God.  Simply put, there are a variety of ways to think about the will of God and these two offer us a framework as we move forward in our discussion.

The Permissive Will of God
This aspect of God's will (as is implied by the language) has to do with what God will permit.  To some degree, we see this most clearly in the world when people make bad or evil choices.  God does not desire people to sin nor does He cause them to do so (James 1:13), but He does permit them to do so (more on this in the future when we address the necessity of freedom in order that true love exists).  God's permissive will can be sub-divided into two categories - the things He permits with which He is pleased (positive), and the things He permits with which He is displeased (negative).  Dallas Willard in his book Hearing God talks about the positive permissive will of God with an example of a father and son.  A son comes home from school and asks, "Dad, what should I do during play time this afternoon?"  The father's desire is that the son would play, enjoy himself, and get some exercise, but since he doesn't have a specific activity in mind, he tells his son to play whatever sport he wants - all the father wants is for the son to do something that fulfills his aforementioned requirements. This can be seen as the Positive Permissive Will.  Sometimes, God desires something broadly from us, but allow us the freedom to choose.  Augustine lived this out with his axiom "Love God and do as you please."  If we are in walk-step with God's heart, He sometimes gives us the freedom to choose what we do.  As long as it falls within His moral bounds and what we already know of His well, we have freedom to choose through which doorway we walk.

Negative Permissive Will is just the opposite.  God will allow bad decisions to be made, bad things to happen and though He doesn't desire it, He allows it.  This is an entirely separate topic, so we will leave this for now and return to it at a future time.

The Efficacious Will of God
This will of God is best described as the will of God that will happen.  When we read in Scripture that Jesus will return, we can be sure this will happen - God will engage the needed variables so this happens.   Some offer the question - if Moses refused to go, what would God have done?  The question brings in many variables, but at the core we can stand on this truth: if God desires something to happen, it will come to pass.
The Resurrection of Christ - this was going to undoubtedly happen.

What can we glean from these wills of God?  At least a few things.  First, sometimes when we are feeling the tension over wanting God's perfect will, we have to realize He might be offering us freedom within His framework (giving us choice within His bounds).  Secondly, we can be sure that the plans God has for us will come to pass.  If God efficaciously desires for us to become something, travel somewhere, or to live out a certain calling - it will happen.  In both of these, we can take comfort and find peace.  These are rooted in His character (our topic for the next post).

-tC

Discerning Direction - Honest Frustration

 

When we are in the waiting process for God's direction, we can easily become frustrated.  While we might be inclined to try and squelch that emotion, the truth is God already knows that we are feeling it.  I can recall one evening when I had a speaking engagement at my church and as I prayed before I said (among other things), "God, please let me do well so I don't look..." and then I stopped.  I restarted that line and said, "God, use this night to be a blessing to others and..." and then I stopped, again.  I laughed at myself.  Part of my desire was to not bomb that evening, and yet I stopped from expressing that out loud because I knew it didn't sound very pious.  But I had to laugh - I stopped as if God didn't already know what was in my heart and mind.  The end result - I prayed for both good night for the attendees and for me as well.  I can't help but think God laughed at my attempt to keep my true feelings from Him.

In the waiting process, if frustration arises, we have to own it and speak to God about it.  The nature of the triune God is personal.  Before He created anything at all, God (Father, Son, Spirit) was in communion with Himself.  When contrasted with several other world religions, the Christian faith follows a God who is personal by His very essence and thus allows us to be that same way since we were created in His image (Genesis 1:26 - "our image" - The Trinity in Creation).

So express the frustration, just don't become ruled by it.  Paul charges Timothy to be "clear-minded (2 Timotyhy 4:5), and thus we can experience the emotion of frustration, we just can't let it take us over.  In the same vein, be aware that the frustration that comes from waiting on God's revelation of your next steps should be channeled into speaking to Him about it in prayer.  Consider Lamentations 3:55-57:

Lamentations 3:55-57

55 I called on your name, LORD,

from the depths of the pit.

56 You heard my plea: “Do not close your ears

to my cry for relief.”

57 You came near when I called you,

and you said, “Do not fear.”

As you can see, the author is willing to be honest with God, and it appears without much concern for shrouding what's happening in his heart.  We can share in an authentic way, in an honest way, and yet still be respectful.  The personal and holy nature of God may be approached in the same way that Jesus approached Him - "Holy Father" (John 17).   

- tC

Discerning Direction - Willing to Wait

Once we are in the place of truly desiring direction from God (see last post), the next step is to consider what our internal time-line might look like.  Whether we admit it or not, most of us have a sense of what it is we really want in our future.  We may not have all the details, but we usually know where we'd like to be and what we think things should look like.  But this is where we have to pause and, again, take that internal audit. 

The logic that flows might be organized in this way:
1.  God is good and wants to give good gifts to His people (Jeremiah 29:11, Romans 8:28)      
2.  God is omniscient and therefore knows all that will occur (Psalm 147:4,5)
3.  Thus if He wants good for us, is able to work all situations for our good and His glory, AND He knows all (and so isn't surprised by anything), He is worthy of our trust.

But this is where the rub comes.  Referring to Paul's writing in Romans 12 it has been said that the problem with a living sacrifice is that it always seems to crawl off the altar.  We are often willing to follow Him, as long as it doesn't hurt too much or take too long.  The reason we must check our motives again is because God's time-line is rarely ours.  One of my favorite passages in the entire Bible is found in Genesis 41:1.  We read that "Two years later, Pharaoh had a dream..." and then the passage goes on.  Looking back a few chapters, we see that Joseph has already faced physical pain and imprisonment, and now we read that he's still in jail for at least another two years.  We can quickly skim over those words as we rush forward to hear about the positive aspects of this story, but pause and reflect that it took Joseph at least two years before things truly began to turn around.  I can imagine that during those long nights in the prison, Joseph had to have questions for God (more on this tomorrow). 

But the point is this: the will of God, the purpose He has for us - it often takes time to bring it to pass, and only if we trust Him and His character will be able to wait on Him.  God used 40 years in the wilderness to refine and test the nation of Israel and see what they truly had in their souls.  Walking in the will of God often means patience and perseverance.

As we seek the will of God, we must begin with introspection and ask: do I truly desire His counsel and direction, and am I willing to wait for His plan to be revealed while trusting Him in the meantime?  Two audits down, more to come.

- tC

Discerning Direction - Truly Seeking?

(This post begins a series around the question of discerning direction in life).

For most of us, there has come a moment when we ask, "Where am I going?" or "God, what do You want me to do with my life?"  If we are truly asking God for direction, I find that we must begin with an internal audit.

First, we have to ask ourselves if we are truly desiring the answer.  There are many occurrences in the Scriptures when people asked Jesus questions without any real desire for His response.  Perhaps most well known is when, during the mockery of a trial, Pilate asks Jesus, "What is truth?"  The next line reads, "...and then he went out."  (John 18).  Pilate had no real desire to even give Jesus time to consider the question, which is highly ironic in light of the fact that in John 14, Jesus self-describes as "The Truth". 

When it comes to our pursuit of direction in life, do we really want an answer, or is a half-hearted, 'heaven-ward tossed' prayer enough to make us think, "Well, I tried, and no one answered, so I guess I'll just figure it out on my own"?  If we are truly interested in possibly hearing from our Creator and Designer what it is He has for us, we have to first be willing to truly seek.  Hebrews 11 challenges us to consider if we really believe that God rewards those who earnestly seek after Him (Deuteronomy 4:29).

Before we even begin to look for an answer about God's will in/for our lives, we have to truly be willing to seek the response and the One who offers it.  Without the true desire for a response, we waste our time and mislead ourselves.  But if we are truly seeking, we, in time, will find.

Tomorrow, we will discuss the notion of waiting on direction from God.

- tC

So Much More

Desk-jockey.

Do you ever feel like one? Even though I work in a church, even though ministry is inherently connected to people and being with people, I sometimes feel like I get stuck pushing papers, sending e-mails, and taking care of tasks. I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way. It's almost chic to complain about being stuck in a cubicle. "Rage against the machine" - "Don't take it from the man" (though I'm not sure who "the man" is).

But there is something to this sense of melancholy that can fall upon us when we feel like the purpose of our life is just to complete a list of tasks that feel at times like they are not connected to a bigger purpose, a meta-narrative. For those who are working on figuring out where God might fit into this discussion, I find Switchfoot's "Meant To Live" terribly appropriate. For those who may be followers of Christ, a challenge from Francis Chan to not live a safe life. We are called to a great deal more than safety.






We will never move into a place of purpose until we first consider our cause.  Why risk anything if the purpose is to be safe and comfortable?  But there seems to be truth in Augustine's adage that we were created with a longing for the One who made us and our hearts remain restless until we find our rest in Him.  When we find the Purpose, the "so much more" emerges - we are made to be redeemed from ourselves and redeemed into the story of the Grand Designer.

- tC